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This board is multifaceted, crossing various topics from New Age, spirituality, metaphysical, psychology, physical issues, relationships, emotions, self-help and more. It is created for those who seek change and desire to empower themselves, to live life as an expression of who they really are in unconditional love. If you think/feel that your life and this world full of denial, fear and unlovingness is totally opposite what you desire, it is no coincidence that you are here.

To say that this board will be controversial is an understatement as it goes against almost everything society presently believes to be true about emotions, feelings, life and love. But then why wouldn't it be controversial if the desire and goal is the opposite of what is presently being experienced! To empower yourself, you need to be open to challenge everything you believe to be true, especially about love, life, emotions and feelings and also be willing to end your denials of self.

I openly share the knowledge, tools, messages and insights that I've gained through sixteen years of intensive personal experience and in working with others on their journey. Feel free to visit the various forums and posts and to also add your personal experiences, comments and questions. It is my intent that the ideas and works that will be discussed within this forum will not only expand your consciousness, but also activate your emotions and touch your heart.

In love, light and life,
John Rieger aka Shenreed

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103-08 Denial Teeter-Totter


Conditional Love -103-08 Denial Teeter-Totter

Hi everyone,

False healing and a false sense of self-empowerment take place when we move from one end of the denial teeter-totter to the other. For example, you may be in a physically abusive relationship and now, fed up with the abuse you choose to terminate the relationship and so you now think you have empowered yourself. You might avoid getting into another relationship, saying that you are better off alone, but that is also denial because of your denied fears. If you are looking for another mate, you will attract a partner that was also in an abusive controlling relationship but just in a different form and they too are seeking change or rather, to escape. You may think that you have found the perfect mate and while it may not be a violent, physically abusive relationship, it will have subtle forms of emotional and mental abuse and denial on both sides. Quite often the abused becomes the abuser, demanding, controlling and manipulation the relationship in fear that it will be a repeat of what happened before.

Although all this appears as a so called “positive attitude” and change, it is little more than a form change, as beneath the surface presentations lies the denied and hidden REAL issues of why the abuse was happening in the first place. While this is falsely praised and appears to be a shift in consciousness, awareness and self-empowerment, it is merely experiencing the opposite end of the denial teeter-totter and nothing really changes except the form of the abuse because the REAL issues haven’t been addressed and healed.

And so the years go by and one day you look in the mirror at the reflection of two cold and tired eyes. You silently shake your head and ponder the meaning of life and if there is any REAL love in this world, as all the denials and self-sacrificing hasn’t given you what your heart longs for.

Shenreed


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